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Some of the Milestones Occupational Therapists May Ask About or Look For

June 11, 2025 By admin

Note: These are not all possible milestones. These are just some important developmental milestones and the ages are general. 

Fine motor 

  • Reach with one arm and then bilateral reach (reaching with both arms) between 4-6 months
  • Transfer an object from hand to hand at midline around 5 to 7 months 
    •  Raking grasp around 6 months  
    • Radial palmar grasp around 6-8 months
    • Radial digital grasp around 8-12 months
    • Immature pincer around 10 months
  • Grasp/pinch patterns:
    • Point with index finger around 12 months
    • True pincer around 12 months of age
  • Order of crayon/pencil writing grasps:
    • Palmar supinate 12-18 months
    • Digital pronate 2-3 years
    • Static tripod at 3-4 years
    • Dynamic tripod (lateral tripod) around 5 years
  • Preschool skills
    • In-hand manipulation skills (shift, rotation, translation) without stabilization around 4-5 years.
    • Open web space between 4-6 years of age
  • Scissor skill progression 
    • Using two hands to cut at 1.5-2 years
    • Open and close scissors to cut play dough around 2-2.5 years
    • Snipping at edge of paper around 2.5-3 years old
    • Cutting across in a generally straight manner or on a straight line around 3-3.5 years of age
    • Cutting on a curved line and circles around 4 years old
    • Cutting complex shapes like a star around 5-6 years old

 

Gross motor skills:

  • Rolling each direction around 6 months of age
  • Push-up on all fours around 7-9 months
  • Side sit around 7-9 months
  • Sit independently around 6 months when supported by both hands and unsupported by their hands around 8-9 months.
  • Creep and crawl around 6-10 months of age
  • ½ kneel around 9-10 months
  • Pull to stand/ Cruise around 9 to 12 months
  • Walking around 9-18 months
  • Running around 18 to 24 months
  • Jump with 2 feet around 2 years old
  • Galloping around 2-3 years old
  • Hop on 1 foot around 3-4 years old
  • Pump swing around 3-5 years old
  • Stand on 1 foot around 3-5 years old
  • Skipping around 5-6 years old
  • Hold supine flexion and prone extension full for 30 seconds (age 5)
  • Ride a bike two-wheeler independently (5-7 years old) 

 

  • Infant reflexes
    • Moro: startle reflex that is present at birth and integrates between 2 to 4 months of age
    • Rooting: this reflex helps the baby find the nipple and is present at birth and integrates between 3 to 6 months
    • Palmar: when the baby grasps anything put in their palm, occurs at birth and integrates between 3 to 6 months
    • TLR: this affects the baby’s posture depending on head position, it is present at birth and typically integrates between 3 to 6 months.
    • Spinal Galant reflex: this is when the baby’s back arches when the spine is stroked; it is present at birth and usually integrates between 3-9 months.
    • ASTNR: where the baby extends the extremity on the side, they are looking and flexes the limbs on the opposite side. This develops between 1 to 4 months and integrates between 6 to 9 months.
    • STNR: helps the baby move their top half and bottom half separately and usually integrates between 9 to 11 months
  • Infant in prone:
    •  Can lift head around 3 months of age
    • Prop on elbows around 4-6 months
    • Prop on hands around 5-6 months

 

Visual Perceptual Motor (VPM)

  • Progression of towering blocks:
    • Around 7 to 9 months babies show interest in 1” blocks by picking them up and banging them together
    • Around 11 to 12 months a baby may try to stack one block on top of another, but may not have the proper motor planning to do so
    • Around 12 to 16 months, a child should be able to make a two block tower successfully
    • Around 16 to 18 months, a child should be able to create a three block tower successful
    • Around 18 to 22 months, a child should be able to stack four blocks successfully
    • Around 22 to 24 months, a child should be able to stack six blocks successfully
    • Around 28 to 31 months, a child should be able to stack eight block successfully
    • Around 32 to 36 months, a child should be able to stack nine blocks successfully
    • After three years of age, the child should be able to stack 10 blocks successfully
  • Completing a puzzle
    •  A child should be able to complete a three-piece puzzle between 6 to 18 months
    • A child should be able to complete a four piece puzzle between 26 to 36 months
    • 3 to 4-year-olds will likely be able to complete 8 to 10 piece puzzles
    • 4 to 5-year-olds can take on 12 to 24 piece puzzles
    • 5 to 6-year-olds can do 24 to 48 piece puzzles
    • 6 to 7-year-olds can do 50 piece to 100 piece puzzles
    • 7 to 8-year-olds can do 100 to 200 piece puzzles
    • And around 8 years of age, the child can do more than 200 piece puzzles

  • Writing 
  • A child may imitate scribbling between 12 to 18 months
  • A child may imitate vertical lines around the age of 2
  • A child may imitate a circle around the age of 3
  • A child should be able to copy a circle or vertical/horizontal lines between the ages of 2.5 to 3
  • A child may imitate and copy letters with horizontal and vertical lines (H,T,L,E) around the age of 3-4
  • A child can likely imitate and copy diagonal lines (like a triangle shape) and letters with diagonal lines (X, K, R) around the age of 5. 
  • A child is typically able to trace letters and name, copy name, write name around the age of 4
  • Drawing a person
  • 1-3 body parts at 3 years old
  • 4-7 body parts at 4 years old
  • 8+ parts around 5

ADL

  • 1-2 years
    •  Attempting to brush teeth
    • Knowing where familiar items are kept
    • Removing own shoes and socks
    • Cooperating with dressing by extending an arm or leg/ pushes arms and legs through
  • 2-3 years 
    • Using toilet with assistance and having daytime control
    • Pulls down pants
    • Finds armholes in pullovers
    • Removes jackets if unfastened
    • Unbuttoning large buttons
    • Puts on a front button shirt
    • Distinguishing between urination and bowel movements, and names them correctly
    • Using a napkin to wipe face and hands
    • Feeding self simple meals using a fork or spoon
    • Taking socks and shoes off
    • Knowing where familiar items are kept
    • Attempting to brush teeth
  • 3-4 years
    • Feeding self without difficulty
    • Buttons large buttons
    • Puts on pullover
    • Zips and unzips (except to get zipper started)
    • Snaps buttons
    • Independently putting things away
    • Using a napkin to wipe face and hands
    • Toileting independently
    • Dressing and undressing self (only requiring assistance with laces, buttons, and other fasteners in awkward places)
    • Brushing teeth independently
  • 4-5
    • Identifies front and back of clothing
    • Zips jacket
  • 5 ish-
    • Dresses independently
  • 5-6+ 
    • Ties shoes
  • Toileting
    • May awaken at night and cry to be changed 1.5 years
    • Child may indicate wet pants 1.5 years
    • Only has an occasional accident 22 months
    • Climbs on to toilet by self 2.5 years
    • Controls bladder up to 5 hours 2.5 years
    • Attempts to wipe self, not successful 3.5 years
    • Stays dry at night 4 years
    • Toilet without assistance 4.5-5 years

 

Resources:

Capable of completing puzzles with three or four pieces (26-36 months). Parenting Counts. (n.d.). https://www.parentingcounts.org/capable-of-completing-puzzles-with-three-or-four-pieces-26-36-months/#:~:text=28%2D36%20Months 

Ellis, R. R. (2023, July). What developmental milestones will my baby reach in the first year of life?. WebMD. https://www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/baby-first-year-milestones 

Hogan, L. (2024, February). The sensorimotor stage: What it is, its substages, and related activities. WebMD. https://www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/what-is-sensorimotor-stage 

Shelov, S. P. (Editor-in-Chief). (2004). Caring for Your Baby and Young Child: Birth to Age 5. The American Association of Pediatrics. Revised edition. New York: Bantam Books

 

Shop sale new arrivals adult puzzles Afrikaans products children’s puzzles classroom Resources Educational Products Educational Toys Exploration & Science Family Games Gross Motor & Outdoor Play Music polarb viga toys. RGS Group. (n.d.-a). https://www.rgsgroup.co.za/puzzle-age-guide/ 

Teaford, P. (2004). Help 0-3 checklist (2nd ed.). Shine Early Learning. https://shineearly.store/products/help-3-6-checklist-2nd-ed 

Wood, V. W. (2023, October 19). Grasp patterns. The OT Toolbox. https://www.theottoolbox.com/grasp-patterns/ 

 


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